I’ll gladly start this talk and take the heat if need be just to get this discussion out there to find a solution.
I have responded to countless domestic disturbance calls during my time as a cop all the way from he said she said to violent beyond words.
I’ve seen women battered, abused and terrified due to the hands of true violence and violent sexual aggression. And I have also seen women pissed off at the mere sight of the man they choose to be with.
Most cops will have seen this in their career and know the concept of “regulars” in this fashion.
But I have also seen women who know the system favors their words over men. Women who just want the house to themselves and are pissed off at their husband or boyfriend simply because he didn’t do something she wanted.
They know that calling 911 will get the cops to come and pretty much get the guy to leave for the night.
I have witnessed first hand the smirk of women as I have placed their significant other into handcuffs over razor thin “evidence” all due to my department policy dictating that I “must arrest” and investigate.
I have witnessed women with “marks” on them that everything my experiences and gut have told me, does line up with the guy who is pleading with me, “she did it to herself!”
I have known women who’s guilt in their own willing participation in sexual activity with men, has caused them to abuse the system and accuse men of the most generic sense of “sexual assault” all because of their own need to preserve their female reputation.
And these women do this without remorse to the innocent they accuse.
We witness this young and it’s self serving psychology on the basic premise of rejection that evolves into the preservation of pride. We all know how this works… we get rejected, we cast a bad light on the other party to make ourselves look better.
But when you add the law in this, the damage is catastrophic to the accused.
With the epidemic of sexual harassment and sexual assault claims that are coming out, I absolutely want to focus on those women who abuse the system by making false use of it simply because we know that gender plays the deciding factor in where the focus of a criminal investigation points to.
This dialogue must be started as men’s rights are quickly being overlooked and taken away and true sexual assault and domestic violence investigations are suffering at the hands of women who think that calling 911 is their free pass to erasing their own sexual indiscretions.
Equal rights means equal rights.
Not just women’s rights exerted over innocent men.